Judgy Judi
I wrote something on facebook that I have felt bad about since I hit that post button. This has taught me a few important lessons. One, I need to recheck my internal censor button. Two, I need to remember that the way something sounds in my head is not always the way a reader hears it. Three, sometimes I need to shut up. What did I do, you ask? I made a comment about "Jesus freaks". It was wrong to do for many reasons. There are two parts that keep bugging me. One, I offended some folks - something I would never intentionally do. I like those people. I respect their beliefs. Yet based on what I wrote, they would never know that. Two, I did exactly what I tell my kids not to do. I judged folks based on looks (the crosses on their backs), not on knowing them. I have been known to argue with my (atheist) boyfriend about his comments against those with religious beliefs but I just did the same thing! ...